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Postive advice from aimless viewing of Youtube videos; Learn from musicians you love You are meant to be the captain of your own...
Steven Orr
Aug 29, 20241 min read
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"Dealing With It" 8-28-24
8-28-24 So sorry to have missed the “massage summit” hosted by a fella named Peter on 30th Street yesterday. I was just so exhausted from...
Steven Orr
Aug 29, 20243 min read
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This about sums up August 2024! 8-28-24
Lonely, sexually frustrated dolphin may be attacking swimmers in Japan, researchers say https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2024/08...
Steven Orr
Aug 29, 20241 min read
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Thank you J! Sober revelations 8-27-24
Thank you so much repeat client "J!" I made almost as much in our session as I do working 3 days a week doing elder care! My revelations...
Steven Orr
Aug 27, 20242 min read
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Entering 22 days 8-26-24
I feel more alive than I have in months! No alcohol! Me? Sure, why the fuck not? Insane--maybe but more likely simply bored of getting...
Steven Orr
Aug 26, 20241 min read
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8-21-24 Sober weirdness
Something very strange is happening. Since not having I beer since the 5th of Aug., I feel myself becoming more productive. I also feel...
Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20241 min read
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thank you M. O. "Focus!~" 8-21-24
"Focus on what you can control." Is there a change in the air? I think so... Wow. No alcohol since 8/5/24! Superlative Steve O! The...
Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20241 min read
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"Entities" of a old woman 8-21-24
8-21-24 No, I'm not referring to me bitch. I'm referring to my client. (read on). Well I'm going on 17 days of abstinence from beer....
Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20246 min read
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Musts to Avoid (in massage clients...) 8-19-24
Hopefully this bit of "Orr Wisdom" will help you to avoid a poor M4M masseur's precious time if you are serious about booking a massage...
Steven Orr
Aug 19, 20241 min read
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Meditation Practices for Self-Love 8-16-24
Meditation Practices for Self-Love 8-16-24 based on the Shambhala tradition https://shambhala.org/community/blog/meditation-for-self-love...
Steven Orr
Aug 16, 20241 min read
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Why business slow-downs are good (summer & spring) 8-15-24
Why are M4M massage business slow-downs good (the big ones--summer & spring) for my head? I call it "enforced abstinence" or "harm...
Steven Orr
Aug 15, 20244 min read
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Really have to watch DD syndrome 8-11-24
Easy does it. Gotta be mindful of my "dry drunk" syndrome LOL. RELAX!!!
Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
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Wow. 7 Days No Beer Yay! 8-11-24
7 days of no beer. I am blessed. xoxoxo
Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
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The Ultimate Self-Help 8-11-24
In the Shambhala tradition of Buddhism there is a concept called "Wind Horse" which is when you do something to change your mood or focus...
Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
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Schedule/Rate Update 8-10-24
"Do no harm, but take no bullshit." "No mud, no lotus," Steve the nycmasseur here. I love what I do and I do what I love! Massaging Men....
Steven Orr
Aug 10, 20242 min read
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I love Dr. Mike!!!! 8-10-24
https://youtu.be/aJFiGC13xIw?si=5yfHf7O5fYzQErsJ Super smart, articulate as hell, super knowledgeable about all things body and working...
Steven Orr
Aug 10, 20241 min read
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8-9-24 Day 5 of 30 days (daze) of Abstinence
Thanks again RAT (David the no-show) at 917-626-8426. And you are forgiven. Today is day 5 of my 30 days of abstinence. I was telling a...
Steven Orr
Aug 9, 20243 min read
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8-9-24 David No Show 917-626-8426
David No Show 917-626-8426 8-9-24 12:30 PM Dear evil queen; I truly hope you get hit by a bus today! Just when you thought it was...
Steven Orr
Aug 9, 20241 min read
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Easy Does it; no DD & 8-6-24
I must be careful not to be a "dry drunk" especially when getting triggered by no-show clients and disrespectful people in general. Also...
Steven Orr
Aug 6, 20241 min read
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8-6-24 Day #3 no alcohol;
I”m so proud of myself. Slightly climbing the walls too. Freak #1; booked and no show. Blocked. Freak #2; “I’m a student with a really...
Steven Orr
Aug 6, 20242 min read
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