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Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20241 min read
8-21-24 Sober weirdness
Something very strange is happening. Since not having I beer since the 5th of Aug., I feel myself becoming more productive. I also feel...
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Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20241 min read
thank you M. O. "Focus!~" 8-21-24
"Focus on what you can control." Is there a change in the air? I think so... Wow. No alcohol since 8/5/24! Superlative Steve O! The...
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Steven Orr
Aug 21, 20246 min read
"Entities" of a old woman 8-21-24
8-21-24 No, I'm not referring to me bitch. I'm referring to my client. (read on). Well I'm going on 17 days of abstinence from beer....
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Steven Orr
Aug 19, 20241 min read
Musts to Avoid (in massage clients...) 8-19-24
Hopefully this bit of "Orr Wisdom" will help you to avoid a poor M4M masseur's precious time if you are serious about booking a massage...
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Steven Orr
Aug 16, 20241 min read
Meditation Practices for Self-Love 8-16-24
Meditation Practices for Self-Love 8-16-24 based on the Shambhala tradition https://shambhala.org/community/blog/meditation-for-self-love...
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Steven Orr
Aug 15, 20244 min read
Why business slow-downs are good (summer & spring) 8-15-24
Why are M4M massage business slow-downs good (the big ones--summer & spring) for my head? I call it "enforced abstinence" or "harm...
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Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
Really have to watch DD syndrome 8-11-24
Easy does it. Gotta be mindful of my "dry drunk" syndrome LOL. RELAX!!!
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Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
Wow. 7 Days No Beer Yay! 8-11-24
7 days of no beer. I am blessed. xoxoxo
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Steven Orr
Aug 11, 20241 min read
The Ultimate Self-Help 8-11-24
In the Shambhala tradition of Buddhism there is a concept called "Wind Horse" which is when you do something to change your mood or focus...
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Steven Orr
Aug 10, 20242 min read
Schedule/Rate Update 8-10-24
"Do no harm, but take no bullshit." "No mud, no lotus," Steve the nycmasseur here. I love what I do and I do what I love! Massaging Men....
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Steven Orr
Aug 10, 20241 min read
I love Dr. Mike!!!! 8-10-24
https://youtu.be/aJFiGC13xIw?si=5yfHf7O5fYzQErsJ Super smart, articulate as hell, super knowledgeable about all things body and working...
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Steven Orr
Aug 9, 20243 min read
8-9-24 Day 5 of 30 days (daze) of Abstinence
Thanks again RAT (David the no-show) at 917-626-8426. And you are forgiven. Today is day 5 of my 30 days of abstinence. I was telling a...
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Steven Orr
Aug 9, 20241 min read
8-9-24 David No Show 917-626-8426
David No Show 917-626-8426 8-9-24 12:30 PM Dear evil queen; I truly hope you get hit by a bus today! Just when you thought it was...
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Steven Orr
Aug 6, 20241 min read
Easy Does it; no DD & 8-6-24
I must be careful not to be a "dry drunk" especially when getting triggered by no-show clients and disrespectful people in general. Also...
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Steven Orr
Aug 6, 20242 min read
8-6-24 Day #3 no alcohol;
I”m so proud of myself. Slightly climbing the walls too. Freak #1; booked and no show. Blocked. Freak #2; “I’m a student with a really...
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Steven Orr
Aug 5, 20243 min read
8-5-24
2nd Day No Beer, (Searching for my own lost six-pack) Confession; my motivation (again) for trying on the "Sober suit" (no alcohol day...
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Steven Orr
Aug 5, 20241 min read
Cool Prompts for Writing 8-4-24
Complements of my Teatime (support group) for the Sensitive Musician thank you Audrey! Having a rough time of it? Whip out that pen &...
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Steven Orr
Aug 5, 20242 min read
Incontinent 8-5-24
Late night shit flowing out of my ass onto the kitchen floor Feels so good to be an unpotty-trained ferral child again this is what...
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Steven Orr
Aug 5, 20241 min read
So Desperate! 8-4-24
Desperately bored, horny; here I sit; Living the Dream LOL Here is my new profile on A4A (yes I rejoined it)... Fit, mature, DD free, HIV...
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Steven Orr
Aug 2, 20243 min read
8-2-24
So grateful to be able to BE ALIVE and healthy as a horse right now. Though the city’s rough as hell and filthy as shit; yes we are here!...
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