DBT  is a therapy program designed help clients who struggle with depression and anxiety. These clients sometimes find it difficult to...

Postive advice from aimless viewing of Youtube videos; Learn from musicians you love You are meant to be the captain of your own...

8-28-24 So sorry to have missed the “massage summit” hosted by a fella named Peter on 30th Street yesterday. I was just so exhausted from...

Lonely, sexually frustrated dolphin may be attacking swimmers in Japan, researchers say https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/world/2024/08...

Thank you so much repeat client "J!" I made almost as much in our session as I do working 3 days a week doing elder care! My revelations...

I feel more alive than I have in months! No alcohol! Me? Sure, why the fuck not? Insane--maybe but more likely simply bored of getting...

Something very strange is happening. Since not having I beer since the 5th of Aug., I feel myself becoming more productive. I also feel...

"Focus on what you can control." Is there a change in the air? I think so... Wow. No alcohol since 8/5/24! Superlative Steve O! The...

8-21-24 No, I'm not referring to me bitch. I'm referring to my client. (read on). Well I'm going on 17 days of abstinence from beer....

Hopefully this bit of "Orr Wisdom" will help you to avoid a poor M4M masseur's precious time if you are serious about booking a massage...

Meditation Practices for Self-Love 8-16-24 based on the Shambhala tradition https://shambhala.org/community/blog/meditation-for-self-love...

Why are M4M massage business slow-downs good (the big ones--summer & spring) for my head? I call it "enforced abstinence" or "harm...

Easy does it. Gotta be mindful of my "dry drunk" syndrome LOL. RELAX!!!

7 days of no beer. I am blessed. xoxoxo

In the Shambhala tradition of Buddhism there is a concept called "Wind Horse" which is when you do something to change your mood or focus...

"Do no harm, but take no bullshit." "No mud, no lotus," Steve the nycmasseur here. I love what I do and I do what I love! Massaging Men....

https://youtu.be/aJFiGC13xIw?si=5yfHf7O5fYzQErsJ Super smart, articulate as hell, super knowledgeable about all things body and working...

Thanks again RAT (David the no-show) at 917-626-8426. And you are forgiven. Today is day 5 of my 30 days of abstinence. I was telling a...

David No Show 917-626-8426 8-9-24 12:30 PM Dear evil queen; I truly hope you get hit by a bus today! Just when you thought it was...

I must be careful not to be a "dry drunk" especially when getting triggered by no-show clients and disrespectful people in general. Also...